Friday, April 27, 2012

Silhouettes2


Malindi, April 2012
My next stop, after Nakuru, was the coastal town of Malindi. Being at the shores of the Indian Ocean, a bit of humidity is expected especially for the discerning visitor. The rising and setting of the sun leaves a memorable mark – what with the tall palm trees that seem to usher the godly ball of light in and out of mother earth!
It is here that I receive horrendous accounts of sexual violence meted especially on children (both male and female). Malindi, like Mtwapa is a hotspot for child sex tourism. I remembered a UNICEF study of 2008-2009 on child sex tourism at the Kenyan Coastal region. A social worker related to me how children are being lured out of school to sell sex. Since the hotels no longer condone the ghastly sight of old tourists running around with small girls/boys (thanks to the signing of the code of ethics), the business has shifted to privately owned cottages as beach-boys hone their pimping skills.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Silhouettes


Nakuru, April 2012
The reality of gender violence in Kenya is horrid! The silence in which sexual violence is shrouded is unwittingly annoying and disturbing.
The accounts are well written
On their faces, in their eyes
Engraved in their hearts and soul
The hurt is overwhelming
But, hush! Their lips remain sealed
The voice long gone – a distant hollow
The road to justice, overgrown

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

A HUNDRED KENYAN SHILLINGS FOR WATAMU

13 primary school going girls are currently pregnant in a school in Watamu, Malindi, Kenya. Most girls had to pay in kind to access one essential basic need - sanitary towels!

You can Help  keep our girls in school by donating a packet of pads that costs approximately Kes.100.-



Send your Donations to:
BoraBora Innovations
Account No. 00201100048738
Equity Bank, Fourways Branch
Nairobi

Obstetric Fistula: A Challenge for Early Marriages


KARACHI, Pakistan, Apr 13, 2012 (IPS) :
As is the custom in the remote mountain village of Kohadast in the Khuzdar district of Balochistan province, Bano was married off as soon as she reached adolescence, at 15, and was pregnant the following year.

There being no healthcare facility near Kohadast, Bano did not receive antenatal care and no one thought there would be complications. But, events were to prove different.

After an extended labour lasting three days, Bano delivered a dead baby. "I never saw the colour of my son’s eyes or his hair. I never held him once to my bosom," recalls Bano. Unknown to her the prolonged labour had taken a toll on Bano’s young body. She had developed a fistula caused by the baby’s head pressing hard against the lining of the birth canal and tearing into the walls of her rectum and the bladder.
A week after the childbirth ordeal, Bano realised she was always wet with urine and reeking of faecal matter. "I was passing urine and stools together."

Bano’s family attributed her condition to fate, her father refusing to visit "due to the bad odour coming from me." However, through those trying times, Khan stood by his young wife and sought medical help.

After Bano spent a year in a perpetually "wet and stinky" condition, her husband finally discovered a hospital in Karachi specialising in treating fistula and other conditions related to reproductive health. "I smell nice now and it’s all because my husband wanted me to get well," said Bano, who may have spent many more years in a miserable state if not for the treatment at Koohi Goth.


Kenya, 2010: Human Rights Watch
Kwamboka became pregnant at age 13 while in primary school, developed fistula, and lived with it for seven years before hearing on the radio about a United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA) funded fistula repair camp offering free surgeries. She told us, “I didn’t know anything about family planning or condoms. I just went once and got pregnant.” Despite some government efforts to introduce sexuality education in upper primary and secondary schools, its teaching remains awry given the lack of ownership ( not part of the official syllabus) thus lack of time allocation.

Malindi Kenya, April 2012: M. Mwaila
13 girls in upper primary in a school in Watamu are currently pregnant! Given their immature bodies, all face the danger of developing fistula at childbirth especially considering the poor healthcare and rights awareness within the community, poverty levels, as well as fear of being reprimanded by healthcare workers leading to lack of access to antenatal care. According to a local CBO working on GBV issues, one of the girls said lack of sanitary towels was the major reason girls engaged in sex. Rose (not her real name) intimated that her mother has no money to buy pads. Due to culture, Rose cannot approach her dad because it is taboo for a girl to discuss menses with her father. “Our alternative is to approach men who have cash. They give us money for pads and we pay back in kind – offer sexual favours”.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Need a Husband, Get on Board

Thanks to China's one child population policy, the country now grapples with 41 million bachelors with no spinsters!
According to a report by the Population Reference Bureau, China has for decades suffered an imbalanced sex ratio at birth and is currently facing 'demographic exceptionalism'.
To read more: http://www.prb.org/Articles/2012/china-census-excess-males.aspx

Wednesday, January 18, 2012

You can Prevent Violence against Children

“While legal obligations lie with States, all sectors of

society, all individuals, share the responsibility of

condemning and preventing violence against children

and responding to child victims. None of us can look

children in the eye if we continue to approve or condone

any form of violence against them.”

– Report of the Independent Expert for the UN Study on Violence

against Children, para. 91